How To
Survive Your Honeymoon
By Alex Miller
Once you've
mortgaged the rest of your life for the dress and the ceremony,
made all sorts of promises in front of everyone you know and
danced with your long-lost fifth cousin twice removed, you
deserve a little time off to recuperate. It's called a
honeymoon.
Your
honeymoon is that wonderful period of grace between the fantasy
of your wedding and the reality of simply being an old married
couple. It's a time for the two of you to get to know each other
as well as two people who are going to spend the next couple of
days alone with only each other for company can. But not so
alone that you can't ring for room service when you need it.
According
to a recent survey by Modern Bride magazine, newlyweds are
certainly not loathe to shell out when it comes to spending up
on their honeymoon - on average, newlyweds spend $3,700 on their
honeymoon. For the average wage earner, that's almost 10% of
their annual income.
Honeymoon
spending is high for a number of reasons. Firstly, for most of
us it's a once-in-a-lifetime chance to live it up, favoring
luxurious resorts and exotic cruises over a two-star
just-off-the-highway motel. And the honeymoon is generally not
the time for going to stay with mad old Aunty Gladys who you
haven't seen since you were five. No, honeymooners want their
day in the sun, a time to luxuriate in the newness of coupledom
and they are usually looking for something special. So if that
means ordering that second bottle of champagne, or deciding on
the lobster for dinner, most honeymooners don't give it a second
thought.
To compile
their list of Top 10 honeymoon destinations, the Modern Bride
survey factored in romance, ambience, affordability, seclusion,
culture and adventure amongst its list of important qualities.
Here are the results for overall excellence:
1.Hawaii
2.Jamaica
3.Mexico
4.Tahiti
5.St Lucia
6.Italy
7.US Virgin Islands
8.Aruba
9.Las Vegas
10.Bermuda
While
there are no real surprises on the list, the surprise is that
there are not more distant, out-of-the-way places in the Top 10.
Which only goes to prove that even honeymooners want value for
money and the chance to explore new territory - but not too far
from home. Of course, Italy is the one exception, but who
couldn't imagine romantic visions of strolling through vineyards
in Tuscany, or sipping grappa in a trattoria in Venice?
If your
honeymoon is still in the planning phase, or even if you've
already got your heart set on an exotic honeymoon destination,
it's worth visiting
Romantic Honeymoon Destinations.
Although most of the destinations we've included are in the
"let's max out the Amex card" type honeymoon, we've also
included plenty of useful information for the more budget
conscious "we smashed open the piggy bank to pay for this"
honeymoon traveler in our
Honeymoon Tips guide.
Just don't
forget, it's YOUR honeymoon and one of the few chances most of
us get to indulge a little. So whether that's the little village
down the road you always wanted to visit or some exotic
location, the most important honeymoon tip I can give you is
HAVE FUN!
Bon
voyage!
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