The Groom’s Countdown
By Leah Steenstra
Feeling a
little lost as to what the duties of a groom are? Below is a
list of things you can do, with or without your bride, to ensure
that the wedding goes smoothly.
12 to
18 Months Before
·
Meet with
both sets of parents to discuss the budget and style of the
wedding.
·
Go with your
fiancée and book the reception site. Many sites fill up quickly
so the earlier you pick a spot, the better!
·
Reserve your
ceremony location.
·
Choose your
groomsmen. Figure on one usher per 50 guests.
9 Months
Before
·
Decide on an
Officiant.
·
Write out a
preliminary guest list. Be sure to get input from your parents.
·
Register at
one or several locations.
·
Before
selecting a caterer, go to a tasting.
6 Months
Before
·
Choose and
order your attire and your groomsmen’s outfits.
·
Plan and book
your honeymoon. Are you looking for fun, seclusion, fine dining?
Contact a travel agent for help.
3 Months
Before
·
Finalize the
guest list.
·
Order your
wedding bands and decide on inscriptions.
·
Check state
requirements concerning marriage license and required medical
tests.
·
Decide on
living arrangements and order furnishings.
2 Months
Before
·
Buy wedding
gifts for your bride and groomsmen.
·
Get blood
test for marriage license.
·
Pick up your
wedding rings, make sure they fit properly and check the
inscription for accuracy.
2 Weeks
Before
·
Pick up your
marriage license.
·
Give ushers
instructions for seating the guests at the ceremony, especially
if there are guests requiring special assistance.
·
Practice your
toast to the bride’s family.
·
Pick up your
rental attire and remind your groomsmen to do the same.
·
Arrange for
someone to bring the gifts from the reception to your home.
·
Get a
haircut.
1 Day Before
·
Attend the
rehearsal and rehearsal dinner. Give gifts to groomsmen.
Do
something sweet for your bride. A short letter, a flower on her
pillow…. she’s worked hard, show her how much you appreciate
her.
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