I Do, You Do,
We Do - The Wedding Vows
by
Judith Rivers-Moore,
www.WeddingLinks.com
Wedding vows are varied, ethnic, personalized, routine or
popular styles of famous people. The choices are endless,
forgotten about until the end and just as frustrating to decide
upon as the flowers, favors and dresses. Many couples are
choosing to express their vows in non traditional selections
such as customizing love poems and letters, writing their own
vows and even borrowing wedding vows from celebrities. There are
wedding vows to suit every taste, style and wedding.
No matter which type of wedding vows a couple chooses, the vows
will generally fall into three main categories.
There is the traditional "Do you take…." wedding vows which ends
(hopefully!) with the much rehearsed and practiced response of
"I do." These types of wedding vows are a good selection for
couples who are shy about revealing their feelings before a
large audience.
Another traditional type of wedding vow involves the bride and
groom repeating a pledge to one another such as the standard "I
take you…to hand and to hold…for better or for worse…" Many
modern couples complain these wedding vows are too 'cookie
cutter,' uninspired and common.
For those couples who are more daring, brave and expressive
there are a multitude of options available in customizing
wedding vows and writing wedding vows.
Writing Your Own Wedding Vows
Writing your own wedding vows is one of the many popular trends
for today's weddings.
While the task of writing your own wedding vows can appear to be
daunting, it allows couples the freedom to express their most
intimate thoughts and feelings as they are joined together in
matrimony. For brides and grooms who suffer with a case of
writers' block, there are a number of websites that can assist
by offering personalized wedding vows.
Culturally Inspired Wedding Vows
Many couples are choosing to incorporate elements of their
ethnic culture and history into their weddings vows. Culturally
aware couples can choose from a wide variety of songs, poems,
blessings and prayers instead of traditional wedding vows. Just
a few of the more popular choices in wedding vows include the
Blessing of the Apaches, a Traditional Irish Blessing and a
Hindu Marriage Poem.
Interfaith Wedding Vows
Couples of different faiths are also choosing to play it safe
with interfaith weddings and wedding vows. This seems to be a
compromise for those couples who wish to avoid hurt feelings and
anxiety on the happiest day of their lives. And excellent
interfaith resource is the
www.PresidioChapel.com in
San Francisco
Celebrity Wedding Vows
Still yet, other couples are inspired by the wedding vows of
celebrities and are adding them into their own ceremonies!
Wedding vows of such celebrities as Bruce Willis/Demi Moore;
Cindy Crawford/Richard Gere and even Elvis and Priscilla can be
found on the net these days.
Television and Movie Wedding Vows
Some
couples who just can't resist the romance of the silver screen
and are using popular wedding vows from television and movie
couples for their own weddings. Among the top choices are David
and Donna's vows from Beverly Hills 90210 and Bo and Hope's
wedding vows from Days of Our Lives.
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